anything a non binary person does is not binary. showing of cleavage? non binary boobies. lots of make up? non binary beauty. dresses? non binary fancy. stop implying that people aren’t non binary because they won’t buy into the “androgynous masculine” bullshit. a non binary person who doesn’t hide their boobs isn’t mocking you. get over yourself.
Same goes for other body types and ASABs too. Beard and/or mustache? Nonbinary facial hair. Tons of body hair showing? Nonbinary fuzz. Showing off a very flat or concave chest? Nonbinary chest. Rockin’ a baggy t-shirt and cargo shorts? Nonbinary casual.
Nonbinary people don’t need either femmephobia or transmisogyny. Some nonbinary people get policed/erased in the ways detailed by the OP, and others (often AMAB) get their genders policed/erased because they “don’t look femme enough” to be “really nonbinary”.
Also, don’t forget that sometimes people of any gender identity dress a certain way because of sensory and disability reasons. For example, suits and pants may be uncomfortable to wear, so someone sticks to dresses and skirts. Disability intersects non-binary identities too, and I never see disabled non-binary people discussed.
THANK YOU. Do I not shave bc I am choosing not to to make a statement or bc I aesthetically like it better than shaving? Um, no, I don’t shave mostly because I have a collagen disorder and autism, the latter of which comes with (didjaknow) executive dysfunction—meaning it’s very hard to do self-care, not because I don’t want to or don’t have the energy, but because I literally cannot switch my brain into doing things that aren’t my special interest.
I wear loose clothing because my skin is oversensitive, I wear black because colour distresses me, etc. I wish more people realised this not just about non-binary people but about all kinds of people. Not to mention the economic burden that a lot of fashion or aesthetic choices are (like hair removal).
I know you’re lonely Jean but at least try to be polite.
and it doesn’t regenerate
fucking trip already
Why don’t you go ahead and trip yourself and quit bugging me?
THIS FACE IS BETTER THAN THE TRASH YOU WILL EVER HAVE NOW WHY DON’T YOU GO AHEAD AND TRIP ALREADY